marriage – David Everett Fisher

anniversary, anniversary of getting the cancers, Blog, cancer, David Everett Fisher, emdr, marriage, medical, no anniversary, relationships, seprating, sober horoscopes, tarot, the infinite fool tarot, therapy

The St Francis and Promises Anniversaries, & Maybe No More Anniversaries

Here is the anniversary post that comes every year: 11 years of davideverettfisher dot com and nine years of my cancer diagnosis. I reflect on my past more than my birthday or AA anniversary. How come me? Next month I will be forty fucking seven years old. I will also visit an oncologist to see […]

2023-09-08770

introspection

buying a home, cancer, chemo, death, depression, dying, fuck cancer, home, house, marriage

Speedball of Emotions

I couldn’t find the quote where it says that if you try to protect yourself from sadness you will protect yourself from happiness. This is the perfect quote for where I am today. I sit at the precipice of something amazing and something terrifying. Nicole & I are buying a house here in Providence, Rhode […]

2022-11-132022-11-131056

introspection

5 years, anniversary, Bing Bong, cancer, cancer and love, life is a beach, love, marriage, relationships, rufus, rufus the dog

The 5 years of bing bong

It was 5 years ago today that Nicole and I began our relationship. There was so much going on in those days. I was in the middle of cancer treatment, recovering from major surgeries, and waiting to find out if my prognosis is terminal. She was going through a lot as well, which isn’t my […]

2020-06-28317

podcast

albums, bag, dfnqhh, marriage, Max Kramer, podcast, relationships, the dave fisher not quite an hour hour, worm, wormbag, ynf, Young & Fictitious

New & Old Dave Fisher Not Quite An Hour, Hour Podcast Episodes!

Good evening. If you are like me, then you are a huge fan of the Dave Fisher Not Quite an Hour, Hour, and wish there were more episodes to listen to. Well, I have good news and I have even gooder news: There are lots of episodes to listen to! Starting with our newest episodes […]

2020-04-30653

introspection

adventure, anniversary, dufur, goats, horses, love, marriage, morels, mt hood, mt hood natrional forest, mushrooms, nicole, Oregon, relationships, wedding anniversary

More Than a Paper Moon

Love is never a constant and steady thing where one feels it and if it is the one true love, never goes away. Love is fickle. Love is an action that one takes when they don’t feel it, to be grateful when one does feel it, and to never take the other person for granted. […]

2020-04-13193

introspection

marriage, missing her, rufus the dog, souls

Waiting and Missing and Lost

My wife and I married six months ago. It was spring, the flowers were blooming, the sun would peak between showers, and we were walking into something that neither of us thought possible. Both of us were in a transition in life. She was still walking away from cooking and trying to find a job […]

2019-10-13557

Travel Bureau

adopted, home, honeymoon, Italy, Jewish, love, magic, marriage, myth, Sicily, spells, spirituality

Dreaming Under the Sicilian Sun

I’m not sure how old I was, my brother was there, my parents told me I was adopted. All they knew was that my biological father was Sicilian. Sicily became to be this place of magic and mystery to me. Sicilian customs, such as Catholicism and the Mafia, we’re attractive to me. Before I go […]

2019-07-072019-07-07745

introspection

amsterdam, bike, cycle, cyclist, engaged, love, marriage, sacred love, wedding

Sacred Love

I am engaged to get married. I was pretty sure that I would never be engaged. Not because no one would want to, or that I hate the institution of marriage, but just that it wouldn’t happen. There is this threshold that one walks through to be ready for that kind of commitment. It’s not […]

2018-08-27323

introspection

cancer, death, dying, marriage, Orcas island, Red Lobster

There is Such Thing as Island Time

I have my CT scan appointment scheduled next week on the 18th. I got the call last Thursday, and it has reminded me how scared I am. My oncology appointment is on the 20th, so finally I can get a fucking answer.What if you had five years left on earth? What if you actually had […]

2015-08-102015-08-10180